My Plan to Get My Game Back

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This is not a recipe for everyone.  This is not a finger pointing at anyone else.  This is not for the faint of heart.  This is not because I’m happy or because I’m sad or because I’m mad or because I’m glad.  (Those are all secondary emotions anyway, and I know how to describe my feelings accurately.)

This is about life choices, lifestyle changes and attitude adjustments.

  • Work out for at least one hour at least 8 (eight) times per week.
  • Wake up before 6:00 AM on most days.
  • Go to bed before 10:00 PM on most days.
  • Shop for groceries at least twice per week.
  • Eat plenty of protein.
  • Eat plenty of vegetables.
  • Drastically reduce fat intake.
  • Zero fast food.
  • “Go out to eat” less than once per week.
  • Average reading or listening to at least one book per month.
  • Reduce many distractions, like social media, TV, alcohol, nicotine and caffein.
  • Write more.
  • Listen more.
  • Listen better.
  • Do not multi-task.
  • Do not start a new personal project until completing one first.
  • Have more conversations in Spanish.
  • Ignore idiots.
  • Drink lots of water.
  • Pay off all debt (period).
  • Stay simple.
  • Keep online posts to less than 200 words.

Signed,
~Toby Getsch 3/26/2011

Envision. Plan. Develop. Deploy. Support. Rinse. Repeat.

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I find myself hanging out with a few great people these days.  I often spend time chatting and discussing life.  Accordingly, I have not been writing as much as I’d like.  I’m just going to roll with it for a bit.  I do need to exercise my brain by recording thoughts.  That’s not the real exercise (for me).  It’s sharing thoughts so that others can easily understand them that is a bit draining and a bit challenging at times.

Sometimes I wonder, why is it that expressing a great idea is so much more difficult than having a great idea?  I know that implementation is always harder than expression.  Maybe it’s part of my recent efforts to live pretty simply and minimize the “stuff” around me from a material possessions viewpoint.  That’s great, but it is also something that’s hard to become infectious with.  You see, I don’t think a great idea or even a batch of great ideas is enough.  I want to makes stuff happen and be a person of action, not just just intellectual jargon and rhetoric.  Action begets habits and ultimately changes lives and changes the world.

So, connecting the dots, I realize that for me it is a season for listening and filtering and absorbing.  Then there will be a  season for planning.  And, then there will be a longer season for doing.  There is a lot of similarities to the consulting work that takes up my daytime, work day hours.  Envision. Plan. Develop. Deploy. Support. Rinse. Repeat.

I think I’m envisioning and planning, for this “rest of my life” project.  I know there are plenty of cross-overs between the business world and the regular, interpersonal world.  I also know that there are plenty of things that do not cross over.  I’m trying to be patient and learn, while I have some great people around me.  I’m trying to absorb and personalize life lessons that I want to make my own.  And, I’m trying to be simple along the way.  It’s not a challenge for the faint of heart!

Ordinary

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I certainly don’t strive to be ordinary.  I think I often go out of my way to not be ordinary. Maybe it’s an art. ;)

…so is mothering…  I just watched this video and thought about all the emotions that any mom must go through.  Wow.  As a guy, on the other side of those emotions growing up, I think I just felt hungry.  I was always hungry.  (NOTE: Hunger is not really a valid emotional feeling.  That’s kind of the point of using it here.)

I guess I’m kind of a sap for stuff like this, sometimes.  I still want to hunt and protect and fix.  But, sometimes, there’s a soft side.

The Gift of an Ordinary Day by Katrina Kenison

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